Russell Edward Messer

Russell Edward Messer, 63, of Moberly, Missouri, passed away at home, Friday, April 17, 2026, just before midnight during a devastating Spring thunderstorm.

Russell was born September 28, 1962, in Moberly, Missouri, to Nancy Marie “Riggins” Ricker and James “Sonny” Avery. He attended St. Pius X Church and elementary school and later graduated from Moberly Senior High School in 1981, where he excelled in choir and dramatic arts. His love for music and the arts was evident throughout his life, bringing him peace, joy, and a sense of serenity. Russell’s favorite advice was simple yet meaningful: “Just Dance.” He found inspiration in artists such as Madonna, Lady Gaga, Fleetwood Mac, Annie Lennox, The Beatles, and Taylor Swift.

Russell dedicated his life to the food service industry, earning a reputation for excellence, elegance, and professionalism. Beginning his journey in Moberly at local favorites such as Mark’s Sandwich Shop, the Epp Inn, J.V. Riley’s Peppermill, and Virgil Thurston's Tara on Highway 63, he went on to work in Columbia at The Outback, and Jefferson City's Red Lobster before ultimately making his mark in St. Louis. There, he became a standout at Eleven Eleven Mississippi, a renowned restaurant celebrated for its cuisine and atmosphere. Known to many as “Mr. Food Service,” Russell’s skill, warmth, and attention to detail left a lasting impression on coworkers and guests alike.

While living in St. Louis, Russell embraced the city’s vibrant culture. He enjoyed visiting iconic attractions such as Busch Stadium, the Gateway Arch, Anheuser-Busch Brewery, Lemp Mansion, City Museum, Union Station, Forest Park, Grant’s Farm, the Missouri Botanical Garden, and the St. Louis Zoo. He loved attending live music events and sharing these experiences with friends and family. Russell was also knowledgeable about current events, the arts, and the world around him.

Russell cherished time spent gardening, cooking, and traveling—especially with his beloved mother, Nancy. Together they visited destinations including Hot Springs, Arkansas; Las Vegas, Nevada; Louisville, Kentucky; Phoenix, Arizona; Hawaii; and many others. They shared a love for horse racing and casinos, frequenting places such as Ameristar in St. Charles, Isle of Capri in Boonville, Meskwaki Casino in Iowa, and Argosy Casino in Kansas City. Russell was especially proud of attending 24 Kentucky Derbies and visiting racetracks across the country.

Russell fought a long and courageous battle with cancer and later endured severe complications from COVID-19. Despite his strength and determination, he ultimately succumbed after a prolonged and difficult fight, deeply impacting all who loved him.

He was preceded in death by his father, James “Sonny” Avery; his nephew, John David Smith; and his grandparents Russell “Stub” and Elizabeth “Betty” Riggins, Bill and Helen Avery, and Allen and Estella Messer.

Russell is survived by his loving mother and stepfather, Nancy and Herman Ricker of Moberly; his stepmother, Ellen Avery of Moberly; and his siblings, RoxAnn Messer Bell, John Avery, Stephen Avery, Ellie Bugg, Tracy Wright, Genie Davidson, and Melissa Ayers. He is also survived by his nieces Mary and Lisa Smith, and great-nieces Aaliyah Marie Lynn Smith and Elizabeth Marie Smith, along with many extended family members and dear friends.

A memorial and graveside service at St. Mary’s Cemetery will be announced at a later date. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to the “Run for Your Life” organization.

The family extends heartfelt thanks to everyone who offered prayers, food, supplies, and comfort during Russell’s illness, with special appreciation to the nurses of St. Croix Hospice, St. Pius X Church, Mr. Bill Stuart of Cater’s Memorial, and all who supported Russell and his loved ones during this difficult time.

Russell will be remembered for his vibrant spirit, his love of music and life, and the joy he brought to others. His memory will live on in the hearts of all who knew him.

In keeping with his request, there will be no public services.